How the Like Button Triggered Self Hate

Monday 19 August 2019

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Hello beauties

Today I wanted to share with you my thoughts on Instagram's recent announcement. Over the last few months, Instagram has undergone a number of changes, including hiding like counts on photos and view counts on videos from other followers. The ongoing trial which is being conducted in six countries around the world, comes after concerns about the link between social media pressures and mental well-being. But is it time we scrapped the heart icon altogether?

As young people, our validation is measured by exam results, the label in our jeans and above all the number of likes on Instagram. Gone are the days when we could snap a selfie just for the sake of sharing. Now, if it isn't ceremoniously Facetuned and fails to hit those all-important double figures, we are deemed ugly, shunned and unworthy of attention.

Personally I think more privacy from followers would reduce the stifling, FOMO fuelled competition. However the issue remains that Instagram is warping our self-esteem. And if users can still access their own metrics, then what is the point?

Ever since Instagram launched, the word like has lost all meaning. It used to be a sign of appreciation and sincerity but now it merely signifies an absent-minded click of a button, sparking a fluctuation between dopamine and self-doubt.

For brands and businesses, likes are an important source of market research. Therefore perhaps the like button should be made exclusively available to these professional accounts. However when it comes to personal users, I honestly don't think it's necessary. One of the reasons why Instagram embarked on this trial was to encourage users to focus more on their content rather than the metrics. In my opinion the only way we can truly achieve that is to disable the like feature on personal accounts. We should be validating one another through positive comments and words, not meaningless numbers.

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