Way back in February, my dad took to his bed for several weeks
with what we assumed to be a nasty cough. All the home remedies were
prescribed: honey and lemon; satsumas; chicken Soup. Yet still, the symptoms
persisted. It was a mystery.
After numerous antibiotics and back-and-forth trips to the GP, my
dad was admitted to hospital with sepsis. It turned out the precautionary
overnight bag he'd packed was not quite sufficient, because he would stay in
that hospital, moving between wards for 36 days. His condition quickly
deteriorated from Sepsis to double pneumonia, then a rare auto-immune disease
called Myositis in which the body attacks healthy muscle cells. And, despite
being tested for Covid-19 upon admission, he was later swabbed again and this
time it came back positive.
I'm pleased to report he is back home and doing much better. This
is all, of course, thanks to our NHS. Before the pandemic, I knew our health
workers were amazing. However, these last months have proven they are heroes.
The same goes for the care workers, emergency service workers, grocery workers
and delivery drivers, who are all propping this country up in such
unprecedented times. What also makes me proud to be British is the strength and
community spirit we have rallied: roads filled with applause every Thursday
night; people volunteering; neighbours looking out for each other; restaurants
delivering meals to those on the frontline. It's extraordinary. Oh and how
could we forget, beacon of light Captain Tom Moore, the legendary war veteran
whose garden walks have nearly smashed £30 million.
Unfortunately, the same cannot be said for all our celebs. Some
have shown great generosity and outpourings of support. Others have been
indulging in a little too much sanctimony for my liking, which I shall
summarise via the following categories. First up, the cringey crooners,
otherwise known as the One World crew. Now, holding virtual concerts may be a
lovely initiative to spread joy. But do these artists have to introduce their
performances like they are accepting a Grammy? Spare us the gushing 'oh my God,
I wanna start by thanking Global Citizen for having me tonight' speech and just
get on with it and sing! Additionally, if they wish to cheer us up, why do they
pick such depressing, cliché songs? Take Jennifer Lopez's rendition of People
by Barbara Streisand for example. Somehow, even when J.Lo attempts Streisand in
a garden festooned with fairy lights, it still evokes the same inward groan you
get when a cocky 16-year old swaggers on to the X Factor stage and announces
they're going to take on Whitney (yeah right, in your dreams).
Next up on my list are the quarantine queens. These stars remind
us daily to live our 'best lock-down lives', often posting virtuous selfies of
themselves baking sourdough; putting the bins out in designer dresses and
heels; or lying in a bathtub, surrounded by rose petals. I mean, the Instagram
lifestyle was FOMO-inducing enough, without lock-down envy thrown into the mix.
Far from promoting a sense of high-School Musical-esque solidarity, their
'we're all in this together' spiel merely serves to accentuate how our lives
are worlds apart. For most people, lock-down is less Hollywood mansion or
Christian Laboutins and more along the lines of:
1. Being unable to bake sourdough because A. it's too much of a faff
and B. flour is now gold dust.
2. Living in comfy leggings and woolly socks with hair that could
seriously do with a wash.
And 3. Enduring cold, 30-second showers, because the hot water's
broken and there's no plumber to fix it.
The prize for the most sanctimonious however goes to a couple who
have made regular appearances in our headlines lately. Yep you guessed it:
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. As it goes, I was once a hard-core fan of the
Duke and Duchess. Not in the screaming, Shawn-Mendes-fangirl sense; just that I
thought they were very talented individuals who have made huge contributions to
important causes. Therefore, when they became an item and got married, my
admiration for them only grew. That is until they began preaching about climate
change, whilst casually flying private jets; buttering up Disney directors;
suing multiple newspapers; enlisting lawyers whose clientele featured premiere
football players; and sacking off their royal duties over Instagram. In other
words, the sort of behaviour one might expect from a Kardashian, not working
royals.
Before anyone has a go at me, I fully respect their decision to
lead a normal life. I can also understand Harry's instinct to protect Meghan,
bearing in mind the trauma himself and William have been through losing their
mother. However, I point-blank refuse to accept this scapegoating and war
against our press. They are not the enemies here. While the online trolling and
racism Meghan's received has been abhorrent, this has zero to do with our
press. Newspapers have followed the Independent Press Standards. From where I'm
stood, their coverage has been fair, honest and largely positive. Moreover, any
criticism given has been within reason and down to the couple's own hypocrisy.
Just when we thought their PR blunders couldn't get any worse,
Harry and Meghan put their foot in it not once, not twice, but three times in
the space of about two weeks (I know, a new PB even for them). On this
occasion, it wasn't their desire to 'thrive, rather than survive', tactlessly
revealed during their trip in one of the world's poorest countries. Neither was
it the dubious decision to inform their followers of their departure before the
Queen, leaving Her Majesty to stumble across such a bombshell via a BBC News
notification on her iPad. Oh no. This time the Duke and Duchess chose to weigh
in on a worldwide pandemic. I have no words.
Their first of three blunders came on April 6th, when they
unveiled plans to replace the Sussex Royal Foundation with new charity
Archewell, named after 1-year old son Archie. Albeit a worthy cause, royal
watchers were quick to slam the announcement for both its 'appalling' timing'
and sharp contrast to the message of unity, conveyed by the Queen just 24 hours
earlier. This astute appraisal was not enough to deter the Sussexes from
dishing out unsolicited pearls of wisdom yet again. During an interview for the
podcast Declassified, Prince Harry suggested that the media had exaggerated the
scale of the Coronavirus crisis here in Britain. Erm sorry Harry but:
A. What medical qualifications do you have to underpin such a
statement?
B. How would you know this when you are living a mere 5,000 miles
away in Los Angeles?
And C. How can you just bat away the numbers, as our death toll
exceeds 20,000, amongst the highest in Europe?
To top it all off, a representative of the couple wrote a scathing
letter to editors, in which they cut ties with four British tabloids including
The Sun, The Daily Mail, The Daily Mirror and The Express. Arriving late
evening on April 19th, the letter claimed that stories run in these papers were
'distorted, false and invasive beyond reason'. Needless to say, both editors
and the general public alike were far from impressed by this controlling nature
towards media engagement. Ian Murray, executive director of the Society of
Editors, said: "Although the Duke and Duchess say they support what a free
press stands for, there is no escaping it that their actions amount to
censorship and are setting an unfortunate example'. I personally couldn't agree
more.
The whole point Harry and Meghan ran off to Canada was to escape
the public eye. Now, it seem that they cannot bear the idea of being irrelevant
and so in order to maintain prominence, they have to stir up drama. It's
pathetic. And of course, I'm not for one moment disputing their commendable
contributions to the pandemic through measures such as volunteering, raising
funds and distributing care packages (it's not like they're putting their staff
on Furlough). All I'm saying is that their recent comments have been grossly
insensitive to those suffering. Not only that, they have had the audacity to insult
the amazing work and integrity of our journalists, at a time when they are
going above and beyond for this country.
Part of the reason I aspire to be a journalist is because I have
seen what a difference the press makes. While you might think it's all about
creating headlines and maximising traffic, this is not the case. Journalists
work to inform and empower us. They excel at holding governments to account,
exposing the hypocrisies of powerful individuals and telling stories which
catalyse change. And yes fake news and misinformation may be the products that
come with living in a social media centric world. Notwithstanding, the vast
majority of journalism is rooted firmly in both the public interest and the
quest for the truth. As a pandemic sweeps our globe, this notion could not be
more pertinent. Without journalists, who would have lobbied our politicians for
keyworker testing? Who would have been left to expose the PPE crisis? And who
would have asked the questions and sparked the debates, to ensure that no
issue, no voice goes unheard. That is why, when Harry and Meghan throw around
inflammatory words such as 'distorted, false and invasive', I have a massive
problem.
I often hear people echo similar sentiments. Adopting a knowing
tone, they make supercilious remarks such as 'oh my God I can't believe you're
reading that rubbish' or 'don't you know everything they write is lies?' (blah,
blah, blah). Question them further on their assertion however and in most
cases, they are unable to present a single piece of evidence to support it.
They become flustered, frantically racking their brains, before settling on the
world's most cogent argument: 'erm, well, y'know, it just is, isn't it?' Half
the time, I bet these people haven't even read said publication or said
article. They're just parroting some ignorant comment, made by friends,
relatives and colleagues.
Particularly at the moment, many journalists are having to endure
a daily torrent of abuse and it's just contemptible frankly. Does it not occur
to these trolls that behind the by-lines, are real human beings. Humans with
families and children. Humans who are simply trying to make an honest living
and report the facts. What really doesn't help matters is when public figures
like the Sussexes decide to wade in guns blazing, because all they are doing is
inciting this vile behaviour towards journalists.
I want to end this piece with three, clear messages:
To Harry and Meghan: Think before you act. Stop making ridiculous
claims about things you know nothing about. Stop picking fights when people are
dying and families are grieving. If you're not careful, you will alienate
yourselves not only from the press but from those who saw you as role-models.
To all the cynics and trolls out there: Kindly, get down from your
high horse. Journalists are not using this pandemic to further their careers.
Quite the opposite. They are working harder than ever to provide us with
information and search for answers in an ever-uncertain climate. Along with our
NHS heroes and keyworkers, journalists should be applauded, not demonized.
Finally to all the journos out there: You are doing a fine job and
for that we thank you profusely.